Valentine’s Day – by Dr. Assad Meymandi

Essay on a brief history and biochemistry
of Valentine’s Day

Timeless, So Preserved Here For Valentine’s Days To Come.

Dr. Assad Meymandi: Scientist, Philosopher and Philanthropist. (Click).

The word Valentine has to do with human sacrifice. Self-sacrifice and martyrdom are not new. They go back to the Iron age when Virgil in his Book IV, dramatically depicted the departure of Aeneas for the Trojan war leading to Dido’s plunging a knife into her breast and sacrificing herself for the love of Aeneas. And we know that during the reign of Roman Emperor Diocletian (244-311 AD) Christians were caught and fed to the lions. Were those professed Christians who risked their lives and became dinner for the Emperor’s hungry lions on a suicide mission as are today’s fanatic suicide bombers of Islam? A good question to reflect upon…The martyr sacrificed self. The fanatic bombers sacrifices self and kills innocent others. That is murder…

ValentineFortunately, things got better for Christians after Emperor Constantine (272-337 AD) converted to Christianity in 313 AD. The same persecuted Christians under Diocletian were now pampered and given cushiony jobs under Constantine. What a difference a mere 75 years make!

History tells us that there were three Saint Valentines and the one we westerners strongly identify is the Saint Valentine of Rome who was a priest martyred in 269 AD by the orders of Diocletian. Some 200 years later Pope Gelasius I (he was the pope when saint Augustine ‘345-430 AD’ became the Bishop of Hippo) decided to recognize Saint Valentine’s love and devotion for Christianity and established by papal order the Saint Valentine’s Day. It was not until Chaucer days in the fourteenth century England when the feast of February 14 first became associated with romantic love, a pure Anglo invention.

For this was on seynt Valentynysday

Whan euery bryd cometh there to ches his mate”

Chaucer “Parlement of Foules,” circa 1381

Our Saint Valentine comes from mid-15th century, “sweetheart chosen on St. Valentine’s Day,” from L.L. Valentinus, the name of an early Italian saint (from L. valentia “strength, capacity;”). Choosing a sweetheart on this day originated 14th century as a custom in English and French court circles. Meaning “letter or card sent to a sweetheart“. The romantic association of the day is said to be from it being around the time when birds choose their mates.

For the past seven centuries the invention has served us well. Imagine the number of weddings that have been facilitated and children conceived by Saint Valentine. Incidentally, the etymology of Valentine is from Latin valentinus means valence, and the word value takes its roots from the same origin.

Many people think that falling in love mimics a state of psychosis, a confirmation of this notion comes from Shakespeare’s insistence the “fine frenzy” of the poet, the madman and being in love are indistinguishable insanities. We all have done the crazy falling-in-love things that there are to do-up all night, romantic breakfasts at dawn, impulsive trips to exotic isles, heartfelt torrents of vows-and suddenly becoming a poet fluid with sentiments and expressive powers…There are a whole host of brain chemical and neurotransmitters such as dopamine, catecholamine, indolamines, endorphins etc., involved in libidinal activities. Recently, however, we have begun to associate the phenomenon of falling in love with a chemical that churns in our body to do crazy things. The molecule is called Phenylethylamine (PEA), a first cousin of amphetamine, which the body produces in its adrenal glands. PEA causes excitement, just as amphetamines do. However, it is not as disruptive as amphetamine. Leading scientists and neuro-endocrinologists insist that biochemistry and psychiatry have a definite place in explaining the phenomenon of romance and falling in love. Why should this be left exclusively to poets and Harlequin romance writers. Scientists, too, have a lot to say about it.

There are people who are in constant need of excitement and romance. These are probably the people who have affairs outside of marriage. Or those who have multiple marriages because of the need for constant stimulation and excitement, these individuals engage in many love affairs. It is suggested that high PEA victims may be suffering from a bipolar affective disorder (manic depressive) form of illness. In order to reach their highs, they must be in love and constantly enjoy the infusion of PEA in their body and brain. Examples of famous PEA levels are folks like Elizabeth Taylor and Marilyn Monroe, and Za Za Gabor. Some years ago, British psychiatrists coined the appropriate diagnosis of hysteroid dysphoria to explain the phenomenology of high serum PEA it was never accepted by American Psychiatric Association and what it leads people do

Dr. Assad Meymandi is Adjunct Professor of Psychiatry,
University of North Carolina School of Medicine at Chapel Hill.

He is Emeritus, Founding Editor and Editor-in-Chief,
Wake County Physician Magazine (1995-2012)

Assad Meymandi, MD, PhD, DLFAPA

Distinguished Life Fellow, American Psychiatric Association
Adjunct Professor of Psychiatry
UNC School of Medicine at Chapel Hill
3320 Wake Forest Rd., Suite 460
Raleigh, NC, 27609

Telephone & Fax: (919) 954-5020   Mobile Telephone: (919) 995-4960

2 thoughts on “Valentine’s Day – by Dr. Assad Meymandi

    1. aguruge Post author

      Thank YOU. Yes, I am just beginning to appreciate who he is. He e-mailed me yesterday, out of the blue, saying that he has read my pope books and follows my pope blog. We have exchanged numerous e-mails since then. Guess what? You better take a trip to the Bay. I might be coming down to meet with the doctor! Thanks, Wayne. It is snowing here again. Last Thursday, in 13 hours, start-to-Amazon listing, I did a Kindle ebook — so that people can make notes electronically. LoL. Cheers.


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